All good/real/actual men in the west want just two things… a supportive wife and a loving mother for his children. The guy you’re looking for does not exist. I can say that confidently because women create some amalgamation, of their perfect guy, with the sexual experience/DNA of every guy she’s had sex with. It is, in all frankness, absolutely disgusting. Not to mention 1 in 4 women have herpes. My second life has been wrought with pain and medical issues. I neither need nor want to try dating any of these man/girl hybrids that make up the modern western woman.