people rationalizing their stupid choices away by fantasizing something they couldn’t possibly know. That is the reason my friendship with BHA was ended. She dreams about her abusive ex, who is a few inches taller than me, and rationalizes it away saying it must have been me, only without my accident, cos I would have maybe been an inch taller. Which is wholly illogical, seeing that she didn’t know me prior to my accident, I wouldn’t know her had the accident not occurred and one inch does not make me 6’2″/6’3″ or however tall the abusive prick is. Le sigh… it is saddening to know a beautiful person is raping her own life away by subjecting herself to such bastardly manifestations, all because he already psychologically warped her brain and she wants to see him as her savior. It is a mistake the first time… the eighth time is a sure sign of idiocy.